What do I need to use Coming Out Rehearsal?

Who they want to tell, the relationship, and; What the user is disclosing and what they; The honest risk picture; Whether they want to rehearse the hard version.

Is Coming Out Rehearsal free to use?

Yes — run it free in the browser playground (no API key needed for the sponsored trial, or bring any provider key), or install it into Claude Code, Cursor, ChatGPT and more via npx pm-claude-skills. MIT-licensed and open source.

Coming Out Rehearsal

Q: How do I know the Coming Out Rehearsal output is good?

The skill verifies itself against its own quality checks: Autonomy and safety are handled first; the skill never pressures toward; disclosure and states that waiting/not-doing is valid; Where the user flagged dependency or hostility risk, a concrete safety plan; exists (housing/money/documents/support/exit).

🔵 Stable🕐 updated 2026-08-07 🔷 SkillSpec L3 pm-identity

Prepare and rehearse a coming-out conversation, tuned to the specific person and the real risk — what to say, how to open, how to handle the likely reactions, and a safety-first plan if it could go badly. Use when someone says 'I want to come out to my parents/boss/friend', 'help me tell them I'm [gay/trans/bi/etc.]', 'rehearse this conversation with me', or is planning any identity disclosure. Produces an opener, a rehearsal against realistic reactions, and a safety plan. Safety and the user's autonomy come first — it never pushes anyone to come out.

▶ Run it free — no key needed 📝 Grade your existing draft View SKILL.md ↗

What to give it

▸Who they want to tell, the relationship, and — what they know of that person's likely reaction (past comments, values, other people they've reacted to)

▸What the user is disclosing and what they — want from the conversation (to be known? accepted? just on the record?)

▸The honest risk picture — do they depend on this person for housing, money, safety? are they a minor? is there any history of hostility?

▸Whether they want to rehearse the hard version — or the hopeful one

✅ The bar it holds itself to

Every skill in this library self-verifies — these are this skill's own quality checks, straight from its definition.

✓Autonomy and safety are handled first; the skill never pressures toward

✓disclosure and states that waiting/not-doing is valid

✓Where the user flagged dependency or hostility risk, a concrete safety plan

✓exists (housing/money/documents/support/exit)

✓The rehearsal reactions are realistically clumsy/mixed, not cartoon

✓accept-or-reject, and the debrief notes first ≠ final

✓The opener is tuned to the specific person's frame of reference

✓There's an after-plan for both outcomes, including where to turn if it's bad

⚠️ What it refuses to do

Do not push, guilt, or imply the user "should" come out — it's theirs to choose,

on their timeline, or never

Do not minimize real risk to serve an uplifting arc — for minors or dependents

especially, safety planning outranks the script

Do not script the other person into accepting — the rehearsal must be able to go

Install

npx pm-claude-skills add --agent claude   # or codex · cursor · gemini · hermes
# or one-line MCP (every skill, any client):
claude mcp add pm-skills -- npx -y pm-claude-skills-mcp

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Drop this on your blog, docs, or site — it renders a "Run this skill" card:

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