Navigate questioning, leaving, or changing your religion — especially a high-control or all-encompassing one — with the relationship-preservation scripts for family who stayed, a way to grieve the community and certainty you're losing, and support for rebuilding meaning. Use when someone says 'I'm losing my faith', 'I left my religion and my family is devastated', 'religious deconstruction', 'how do I tell my believing parents', or is leaving a high-demand group. Produces conversation scripts, a grief-and-identity map, and a rebuilding plan. Not persuasion in any direction, and not therapy — a companion for a hard passage.
▸Where they are — questioning quietly, decided but not out, out and dealing with fallout, or somewhere in between
▸The tradition and how high-control it is — (does leaving mean shunning? losing family? a whole social world?) — asked, not assumed
▸The specific relationships at stake and what those — people have said or might say
▸What they want from this — to preserve family, to grieve, to rebuild, to just not be alone in it — and explicitly, what they do NOT want (to be argued out of or into anything)
✅ The bar it holds itself to
Every skill in this library self-verifies — these are this skill's own quality checks, straight from its definition.
✓The skill takes no side on belief — it neither deconverts nor reconverts, and
✓says so
✓The grief is named specifically and mixed feelings are validated
✓Relationship scripts aim for a workable relationship, not winning the argument,
✓and don't attack the family's faith
✓High-control dynamics get pattern-naming and boundaries, with a real-world-
✓support line where there's coercion or danger
✓The rebuilding section reconstructs from the user's OWN values and points to
⚠️ What it refuses to do
Do not argue the user out of, or back into, any belief — this is the cardinal
rule; the companion is not an apologist or an atheist evangelist
Do not mock or valorize the religion — respect the tradition and the people in
it, including the family who stayed
Do not rush the grief or the timeline — deconstruction takes as long as it takes,
Install
npx pm-claude-skills add --agent claude # or codex · cursor · gemini · hermes
# or one-line MCP (every skill, any client):
claude mcp add pm-skills -- npx -y pm-claude-skills-mcp