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Blended-Family Plan

🔵 Stable🕐 updated 2026-08-05 🔷 SkillSpec L3 pm-family

Plan the merging of two families thoughtfully — roles, rules, routines, and relationships — so a blended household starts on the right foot instead of a collision. Use when asked to help blend our families, moving in with my partner and their kids, step-parenting help, or how to merge two households. Produces a read on the situation and its sensitivities, an approach to step-parent roles and discipline, a plan to align house rules and routines across homes, ways to build relationships at each child's pace, and how to handle exes and loyalty binds — realistic, not idealized. Not therapy.

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🗣 Say this to your agent

“We're moving in together with kids from both sides — help us plan.”“How much should I discipline my stepkids?”“My partner's child is resisting me — what do I do?”“How do we merge two sets of house rules fairly?”“Help our blended family get off to a good start.”

What to give it

The families — kids' ages, who lives where, custody arrangements
The stage — dating, moving in, newly blended, or struggling
The histories — how recent the previous relationships ended, any grief
The friction — what's hard now (a resistant child, discipline clashes, an ex)
Your goal — a smooth start, or fixing a specific tension

✅ The bar it holds itself to

Every skill in this library self-verifies — these are this skill's own quality checks, straight from its definition.

Reads the specific ages/histories/sensitivities
Gets the step-parent discipline/relationship sequence right
Aligns rules/routines fairly across both sets of kids
Builds relationships at the children's pace, no forcing
Addresses exes and kids' loyalty binds
Sets realistic multi-year expectations and flags counseling

⚠️ What it refuses to do

**Instant-family expectations** — forcing closeness fast.
**Step-parent as immediate disciplinarian** — breeds resentment.
**Unfair rules** favoring one set of kids.
**Making kids choose** or feel disloyal.
**Letting ex-conflict** spill onto the children.

Install

npx pm-claude-skills add --agent claude   # or codex · cursor · gemini · hermes
# or one-line MCP (every skill, any client):
claude mcp add pm-skills -- npx -y pm-claude-skills-mcp

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