The Ick Decoder
Figure out whether 'the ick' about someone you're dating is a real incompatibility, a genuine red flag, or an anxious/avoidant self-sabotage pattern worth pushing through — by interrogating the specific ick honestly. Use when someone says 'I caught the ick and I don't know why', 'is this a red flag or am I just scared', 'I always find a reason to end things', or is talking themselves out of someone good. Produces a decode of the specific ick, a red-flag vs pattern verdict, and a next move. Honest self-reflection, not a permission slip in either direction.
✅ The bar it holds itself to
Every skill in this library self-verifies — these are this skill's own quality checks, straight from its definition.
⚠️ What it refuses to do
Install
npx pm-claude-skills add --agent claude # or codex · cursor · gemini · hermes
# or one-line MCP (every skill, any client):
claude mcp add pm-skills -- npx -y pm-claude-skills-mcp
Related skills
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Drop this on your blog, docs, or site — it renders a "Run this skill" card:
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