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Reference Request Kit

🔵 Stable🕐 updated 2026-07-17 🔷 SkillSpec L3 pm-layoff

Secure strong references after a departure — who to ask, the ask messages, the briefing sheet that makes their reference specific, and the LinkedIn recommendation swap. Use when asked to help me get references, write a reference request, prep my referee, or ask my old manager for a recommendation. Produces the referee shortlist with rationale, tailored ask messages, a one-page referee briefing sheet, and the follow-up etiquette.

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What to give it

The circumstances — layoff, resignation, complicated exit (this shapes who's safe to ask)
Candidate referees — names, roles, relationship, and honestly: how warm is each?
The target roles — references are chosen per claim the next job needs proven
The stories — 2–3 achievements each referee actually witnessed (a referee can't cite what they never saw)

✅ The bar it holds itself to

Every skill in this library self-verifies — these are this skill's own quality checks, straight from its definition.

Every target-role claim has a referee who witnessed it
Warmth is assessed honestly and lukewarm candidates are cut or comfort-tested
Every ask contains a graceful out
Each briefing sheet cites only what that referee actually saw
The per-use heads-up template exists

⚠️ What it refuses to do

Do not rank referees by title — checkers discount name-recognizers who can't give specifics
Do not send one generic ask to everyone — the relationship register is the persuasion
Do not skip the briefing sheet — unprepared enthusiasm comes out as "great person to work with," which checkers hear as nothing
Do not put words in a referee's mouth they can't own — briefing is reminding, not scripting fiction
Do not burn a complicated-exit bridge by asking the wrong person — the risk notes exist to be read

Install

npx pm-claude-skills add --agent claude   # or codex · cursor · gemini · hermes
# or one-line MCP (every skill, any client):
claude mcp add pm-skills -- npx -y pm-claude-skills-mcp

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